Tuesday, August 25, 2009

I Lost My Dream

by Gerald Anthony

If you have ever traveled to a new city, it is never easy to find your way around. You may or may not purchase a map, but if you do you are constantly looking at it. There are certain stages of life where we seem to have gotten lost on life's map. For some individuals it may be after a family tragedy or career change. For others it may be with pregnancy, childbirth, or after marriage. Whatever the event or circumstance, you may think to yourself thoughts such as, "I have lost my dream." Here are three suggestions that won't solve your problem, but may help put you back on the map.

1- Pre-destination versus free will. There is a group of us that might consider that our lives are all pre-destined by a higher power. We have no control of our lives and therefore should just accept whatever comes our way. There is also another group that might consider our lives to be completely dependent upon what they want to do creating not only their own path but also their own map. What if both were true? What if you were pre-destined with certain skills and abilities, but at the same time given free will on how to use those ‘pre-destined' items? When you feel you have lost your dream, think about considering what you have been programmed to do as well as your next free choice in how to use your program.

2- Don't look back; opportunity is in front of you. This quote from Thoughts of the Day is a perfect description for what is our next step. In life we will loose opportunities due to circumstance, but we will also gain others from that same circumstance. Try to contemplate ways that your dream may be able to remain in existence, but probably with a different twist.

3- Give yourself time to process disappointment. It is a natural to have a feeling of disappointment when events do not go as planned. Give yourself time to process why do you feel this way, what led to this event, and eventually create a new plan to move forward. Recognizing feelings is not a bad thing in itself. However, we should not dwell on feelings to a point to where they control who we are.

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About The Author:

Dr. Gerald W. Anthony has a PhD in Counseling and is current President of The Faith Hope and Love Foundation. He enjoys languages, cultures, and helping others.


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Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Enhance Your Hot Tub Experience

Hot Tubs have become a real craze amid the people, male and female, these days. People dream about having a personal hot tub. It is truly a best way to relax and unwind from all tensions and fatigue. Hot tubs enhance the beauty and add more to the interior of the house. It makes your home look very elegant and beautiful.

Hot tubs have seen a lot of demand in the recent years, but it is associated with loads of maintenance and care. Simply buying a hot tub does not give you the 100% fun. Complete hot tub maintenance is very essential. The water in the hot tubs is the most suitable condition for the emergence of water borne bacteria that affects the hot tub and your health too, and even your friends. Thus in such case, using the hot tub chemicals is a must. Chlorine and bromine are the two mostly used hot tub chemicals that prevent the growth of bacteria in water.

Using the hot tubs accessory is also a must if you wish to enhance your experience of hot tub. These days, market is full of hot tub accessories which actually make your hot tubs look very stylish and also enhance your experience.

Hot tub not only gives you loads of pleasure and calmness, it is also a remedy to various health problems. Targeting the soreness and affected areas precisely, a hot tub’s hydro massage can be used for alleviating the ache in the ankles, feet, back and the neck. Perfect for morning stiffness such hot tubs are an idyllic way for repose and starting the day off soak is a great way to start the day off and get a good night’s sleep before bedtime.

Well those really want to boost their hot tub experience every now and then, for them Arctic Spa is the best solution. Hot tubs offered by us are just good enough to bring smile on your face. In the market we are considered to be the most reliable source of getting hot tub. We will give you the hot tubs in which your whole family can enjoy, and worth the money you spend.

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